December 25, 2012

respect terhadap umat lain


ada yg bilang kalo hukum mengucapkan "selamat natal" bagi umat muslim itu gaboleh ya? dosa ya?
hukumnya masih simpang siur, masih kabur. ada ulama yg bilang haram, ada yg bilang mubah (boleh-boleh saja). trus yg bener yg mana?

saya gabisa komentar soal hal itu. saya juga gatau itu dosa apa gak karena yg tau cuma Allah. urusan dosa itu urusan sama Tuhan. jadi saya rasa, itu terserah setiap individunya.
kalau pun itu dosa, siapa yg tau? cuma Allah yg tau. itu urusan individu dg Tuhan nya. jadi ngapain sih ikut campur? kan kepercayaan orang beda-beda. agomo ku yo agomo ku. agomo mu yo agomo mu. masa bodoh sama orang lain. masalah kepercayaan itu gabisa diganggu gugat. itu tergantung seberapa kuat keimanan individu dg Tuhan nya. gak semuanya yg menjadi kepercayaan kita itu benar. kalau pun memang benar, kita juga ga ada hak untuk ngatur atau menjudge orang lain. kita cuma manusia. gak sempurna.
manusia hendaknya saling menghormati dengan siapapun, hanya Allah SWT yg berhak menilai umatNya, bukan kita. lebih baik introspeksi diri masing-masing. apakah kita sudah pantas menilai sesama manusia yang diciptakan oleh Allah SWT.

kalau ada statement-statement yg mana menurut pendapat agama islam berkata demikian, adapun menurut agama lain itu berbeda dan itulah ke-bhinneka tunggal ika-an kita :)

December 19, 2012

cukup pliiiiiis

CUKUP SEGALA KEJUTAN DI HARI INI.
CUKUP!


pliiiiiiiiis aku sayang kalian semua :((((((((((

dramas

banyak drama hari ini.
semua kejadiannya cepet, beruntutan, kaya sinetron aja.
semua mata tahu, semua mata melihat, semua mata bisa bicara. apa yg terjadi disana. 
tapi ingat, kita cuma manusia. yg satu dg yg lainnya masih banyak perbedaan pendapat dan saling menyalahkan.
seakan ada 2 kubu. kubu A menganggap kubu B yg salah. begitu juga sebaliknya.

lalu siapa yg benar-benar salah atau benar-benar benar?
bukan manusia yg berhak menjawabnya.

biar Tuhan yang tahu, biar Allah yg tahu apa yg telah terjadi hari ini.

December 18, 2012

feeling guilty

it's still about today.
i don't know, something wrong with me.
or am i really wrong? -_- oh i think so.

a few days ago, i really mad with someone. but i'm a hypocrite, not speak directly to her. not forthright her. talking about her behind.
but now, today, i get a surprise from her. really made me shocked and didn't know what to do. a few days ago, i really mad with her and won't forgive her anytime. but now, what should i do? she is really kind to me. i'm so bad. i feel guilty to her. i feel ashamed of myself because a few days ago was angry and dishonest to her. she didn't know anything. i know i'm really in wrong way. i hope she will forgive me without me having to say sorry to her. because i was too hypocritical to speak up and say sorry.

really sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy :((((((((((

money and life

today. many moral values for today.
after i read "Sepatu Dahlan" it's a novel by khrisna pabhicara. it's about dahlan iskan, the inspirator. at page 30-31, i found some words that really touch me. conversation between dahlan and his father. it's so make me understand about life and money. it's make me down. so down to earth. in that book said, (in javanese):
"Iku kan tulisan Arab, Pak." kilahku.
"Tulisane pancen Arab-Melayu, tapi bahasane Jowo. Mau tahu?"
Aku mengangguk. 
"Ojo kepingin sugih, lan ojo wedi mlarat."
"Jangan berharap jadi orang kaya dan jangan takut hidup melarat."
"Bagus," kata Bapak sambil menepuk-nepuk pundakku. "Yang kedua, sumber bening ora bakal nggolek timbo. Apa coba?"
"Sumur jernih ndak akan nyari timba."
 "Betul, tapi itu arti umunya. Nanti kamu akan pelajari makna khususnya setelah mulai belajar di sekolah ini."
 "Yang ketiga apa, Pak?"
 "Pilih ngendi, sugih tanpa iman opo mlarat ananging iman?"
Dengan tegas aku menjawab, "Sugih ananging iman, Pak.
it's really a conversation between father and son that inspires and stir my heart. that money isn't always envelop life. we can't live without money. but money isn't the only medium in life. because money doesn't always present in our lives, then remember that we still have faith. that's what i get from the conversation above.

December 15, 2012

the last day

today is saturday! well, fyi, today is the last day of final test semester 1 in my school. it's a good time for playing playing and playing =))
but there is still remedi waiting for me. but i hope i am not -_- amin.
have you ever mad with someone? i mean, it's really mad. you get very angry of what she did. then you feel that you won't forgive her anytime. have you?
it's not good anymore. really not good. really bad. i shouldn't do that horrible things with ma friend. it's just my temporary emotion. i can't handle it. i can't control my own-suggestion. i can't control myself.

sorry. but i'll be okay as soon as i feel hungry.

(?)

NEW DESIGN LAYOUT!
lilbit absurd. 
but i've spent almost 5 hours to fix up my blogger template. and the result is like what you see. not too bad i think, hha
btw, next monday i'll go to malang. oh, i mean batu. or pasuruan? or pandaan? don't know -_- lah, but i'll go there with my schoolmates. it's like study tour, and recreation i think. but i am sure it won't be a good day for me.
i am not in my comfortable zone.
i miss sepuluh satu so bad. really bad.
oh dammit!